Nineteenth-century military theorist Carl von Clausewitz suggested that war happens when one nation tries to impose its will on another: “…as one side dictates the law to the other, there arises a sort of reciprocal action, which logically must lead to an extreme.” Clausewitz’s maxim can be applied to relationship warfareas well. Couples tend to fight when one party tries to dictate the law to the other.

Disagreements and arguments are normal parts of any relationship, but conflict can also do irreparable [...] READ MORE

ATTENTION ALL MEN: Women in New Zealand are now ditching dating in favor of getting drunk and cruising the town for men – and no we’re not mixing up the words “men” and “women” here.
If you’re not booking your plane flight already, you might be interested to know that women in New Zealand topped the Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey last year – and incase that’s not clear enough for you – they were having MORE SEX than women [...] READ MORE

Just in case you forgot men and women aren’t exactly the same. Courtesy of Stuff No One Told Me.

Free online dating website OKCupid recently put up a post on their blog about a new online photo analyzer they’ve developed that will tell you whether a photo is fit for an online dating profile, which you can check out here. Just by taking a quick look at the comparison of successful photos vs unsuccessful photos, it seems fairly obvious the most successful photos show people in action, completely unaware of the camera, while the least successful are posed [...] READ MORE

I recently came across the ultimate list of free outdoor movies for this summer in New York City. Great for a date or just for fun. To highlight just a few, they’ll be showing Ghostbusters, The Hangover, Goldfinger, The Goonies, and The Big Lebowski. Here’s the full list:
May 28th- Top Gun- Intrepid
June 19th- Field of Dreams- Intrepid
June 21st- Goldfinger- Bryant Park
June 26th- TBA- Roosevelt Island
June 28th- Carousel- Bryant Park
June 30th- Grease: Sing-along- Pier I
July 5th- The French Connection- Bryant [...] READ MORE